benefits of marriage counseling

Benefits of Marriage Counseling

There are many benefits of marriage counseling. Learning to grow together and accept one another is a process, talking to a therapist or counselor can help.

Marriage counseling is a path to solutions. With help, you and your spouse will discover numerous ways to enhance one another’s lives. You may discover paths to healing you never have considered on your own with the help of a counselor. Counseling provides a safe and supportive environment to identify and communicate feelings and behaviors that have been creating conflicts. With an open mind, you can make positive changes.

It is common for couples to seek counseling when divorce is being discussed. While talking through problems can help at this stage, if you want to experience the true benefits of marriage counseling, begin earlier in your marriage. Divorce is a last solution. Remember, relationship skills are learned.

Contact Van Blarcom Consulting for guidance on how to strengthen your marriage.

Deciding to Grow Together

Scheduling sessions with a marriage counselor shows commitment. When you invest time into your marriage, you are showing your partner you have made the decision to do what it takes to have a successful union. You spend energy on good health and a successful financial life. Similarly, you need to spend time on your marriage.

Create space in your life for a healthy marriage. Doing so will increase the intimacy between you and your spouse, allowing a connection that is strong and independent from your duties as a parent or business partner.

Forgiveness is One of the Benefits of Marriage Counseling

When you and your spouse are committed to growth, you can learn to nurture your marriage into a better, more fulfilling relationship. To do this, release the past. Let go of old hurts and learn to forgive one another. Connect and care for each other in more positive ways.

A counselor can help you and your partner find new ways to listen to each other. Form paths for healthy, two-way communication. It is common for couples to get stuck in patterns. Through marriage counseling, you can learn new ways to relate to one another and reconnect.

With help, fears and hurts can come to the surface and be healed. It is common for couples to fight about day-to-day issues, such as money or intimacy, without touching on the true source of an individual’s pain. Address unmet needs and past hurts. Then, true healing to begin.

Seek Counseling Early for Lasting Results 

Counseling frames a safe, supportive environment to communicate what is bothering you. Once you are open with your feelings, you and your partner can adjust your marriage accordingly. Seeking help early, before there are thoughts of separation, can be extremely beneficial. A study of couples married for more than 30 years, with the average age of 60, found that pre-emptive counseling improved marital functioning and satisfaction.

Are you ready to strengthen your marriage? Contact Van Blarcom Consulting today, Kendall is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over two decades of experience.

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