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It’s Up to You to Change Your Life

Many people will step back and point their finger at other people or situations for the cause of their pain. They believe that their misery doesn’t come from inside of them, but from everything that happens outside.

It’s important to remember:

It’s not what happens to you in life – it’s how you handle what happens to you.

What this means is that when life gets chaotic, you shouldn’t simply throw your hands up and accept the misery. You shouldn’t move on in life believing you are just destined to be unhappy forever.

Instead, you need to pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and figure out what you are going to do to solve the problem. While this is easy to read, it’s not as easy to do.

What Causes People to Run and Hide?

Fear is so powerful. When life gets too hard to handle, fear seeps in and makes it even harder to deal with. That’s why many people will run and hide when things don’t go exactly as planned.

The problem is that running and hiding doesn’t help. It just makes it worse.

The only way to change a situation is to do something about it. If you don’t do something about it, you’ll end up just dealing with the same situation over and over again. That’s not going to make you happy.

What happens when you don’t know what to do, though?

Personal Consulting Can Help

It’s not always easy to get out of yourself to figure out what you need to do about a situation. Sometimes, you can become so wrapped up in everything that is going on around you that thinking clearly is just not possible.

That’s when you need a personal consultant who can help you get it all out of your head to examine it all and come up with a plan of action. Personal consulting is turning to a professional who will listen to you, offer guidance, and encourage you to make positive changes in your life.

Personal consulting is a way for you to turn your life around once and for all.

What’s great about Kendall Van Blarcom’s personal consulting is that it’s all done by phone. You never have to drive to an appointment, wait in a waiting room, or take time out of work or other personal responsibilities. You make an appointment when it’s convenient for you, so you don’t have that extra stress to deal with.

Learn more about personal consulting here and then schedule a session with Kendall Van Blarcom. You can increase the joy and happiness in your life. Take action today.

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Are you feeling “uneasy” about a situation in your life? Kendall Van Blarcom provides caring and compassion as your personal confidant, helping you overcome the obstacles standing in the way of your peace and joy. Sessions are conducted via a secure landline. Call for an appointment today.

Van Blarcom Consulting Mission Statement

To provide improved mental health support for seniors, education, and motivation to individuals having difficulty with life’s challenges, and to empower them to turn their life around so they can improve it with positive changes that will greatly influence their thoughts, feelings, and actions for the rest of their life.

Kendall E. Van Blarcom, Psy.M. Licensed Psychotherapist (Retired)


Please note: I do not offer the services of a virtual counselor, therapist or geriatric psychologist. Online personal consulting is not intended to take the place of traditional face-to-face therapy, clinical assessment or treatment.

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