I was listening to a podcast the other day by Lori Harder. She talks a lot about earning your happiness. Her podcasts show people that no matter what happens to you in life, there’s always something to be learned and it always gives you strength. It’s all in how you react to the negativity that happens.
One of the statements she made was very true, and I wanted to share it with you.
No one truly cares what happens to you. Everyone is too self-absorbed.
Unfortunately, this is reality. When you speak to friends and other loved ones, the chances of the really focusing on you are slim. Usually, people will listen for a minute and then immediately talk about themselves.
Where does that leave you? Alone with no support whatsoever. Here you were trying to vent and get some sort of support and you end up helping someone else with a problem. If you feel that’s unfair, you’re right, it is not right.
Personal Consulting for the Support You Need
This is why I am here providing personal consulting. I am that person you try to talk to when you’re going through a crisis. The difference is that I am not going to turn the conversation to me. I keep it on you because you are the one who needs to talk right now. You are the one that needs support. This can feel incredibly good. Just imagine being able to talk to someone who is completely focused on just you. Wouldn’t that be so nice?
You won’t just talk. When you’re ready, we can work to solve some of the problems you’re facing. We can problem solve together, so you can feel good about the next thing that is going to happen in your situation.
When you walk away from our sessions, you will feel heard and validated. You will start to feel as though you have received what you deserve in life – support.
Contact me now to schedule a session. It will only take one session for you to see how beneficial my services can be to your life.
